I’m writing this post because I got invited to a forum online. Yes, it was a sex-forum where more or less mature boys (I don’t want to call any of them “men”, because this behaviour does not qualify them) post pictures of, mainly, girls – writing more or less derogatory remarks about these girls – calling these girls ” sluts”, “whores” etc.
The only thing these girl did wrong was to trust their boyfriends and allowing them to take erotic photos of them, and then either out of spite against the ex-girlfriend or because these guys have less technical knowledge than they themselves think, rendering their private photos shared all across the web via peer to peer networks like Direct Connect, Kazaa etc.
What makes me wonder is if these boys guys think about what they are doing, would they want their own sister being laid out on the web like this, would they like an angry ex-boyfriend of their mother posting their moms’ naked body or more online without her knowledge / acceptance? I think not…
There are sites like “Hot or Not” where you can post your own or other’s photographs to get rated from a scale from 1 to 10, and these sites are pretty innocent, but then you have the sexforums where full frontal nudity and erotic situations gets exploited and profited from.
I won’t post the links to these forums, as I don’t want to promote this behaviour nor boost the forum-owners monetary gain – but I just hope that the girls being subjected to this are able to get past this trauma, because they deserve better…
And to the boys doing this: Please think about what you are doing!! Think about the fact that the girl you are posting is a human being, made out of flesh and blood – the girls you are posting pictures of and calling a whore has feelings and what you see as a past-time may hurt the girl you are posting for the rest of her life!!!
Think twice…